Home
Đăng nhập
Đăng ký
Loading...
3 Habits to Practice Curiosity — and Escape Your Phone | Nayeema Raza | TED - Video học tiếng Anh
Luyện nghe
Nghe
/
Video
/
TED Talk
/
3 Habits to Practice Curiosity — and Escape Your Phone | Nayeema Raza | TED
3 Habits to Practice Curiosity — and Escape Your Phone | Nayeema Raza | TED
Chọn chế độ học:
Xem phụ đề
Chọn từ
Viết lại từ
Highlight:
3000 Oxford Words
4000 IELTS Words
5000 Oxford Words
3000 Common Words
1000 TOEIC Words
5000 TOEFL Words
Phụ đề (106)
0:04
I ask questions for a living
0:06
to people like Mark Cuban, Neil deGrasse Tyson,
0:10
Esther Perel, Bill Nye.
0:13
These masters of their field.
0:16
And the most surprising answer I heard this year
0:18
was from two 11-year-olds named Sophie and Dilan.
0:23
They too are experts in being kids these days.
0:27
So I asked them, how does time with people on screens
0:31
feel different than real life?
0:34
(Video) Sophie: It just makes you feel more with them
0:36
when you're on FaceTime.
0:38
Nayeema Raza: Even more than real life?
0:40
Sophie: Yeah, because you're doing stuff together.
0:43
Like maybe playing Roblox together.
0:45
Because nowadays, when you’re with them, everyone’s on their phones.
0:50
NR: Sophie's pointing out a profound paradox.
0:54
When we are together physically, we are each alone on our phones.
0:58
But when we're in our phones, that's when we can be together.
1:02
The best way to not be distracted by your device?
1:05
Just get inside of it.
1:07
Now these 11-year-olds
1:09
are not talking about some distant, anxious generation.
1:13
They're talking about each of us.
1:15
They're definitely talking about me
1:18
and about a world that's increasingly driven by machines.
1:22
So I stumbled upon an extreme metaphor for what this could look like.
1:27
And it's this guy who's locked in a Waymo, and it's driving him in circles.
1:31
So he calls customer service
1:32
and finds out he's not the only one trapped.
1:35
(Video) Woman: Working with the situation of the vehicle.
1:37
If you have your app pulled up,
1:39
I need you to tap My Trip on the lower left corner of your app.
1:42
Man: Can't you just do it? You should be able to handle it.
1:45
Take over the car. You don't need my phone.
1:47
Woman: I don't have an option.
1:49
NR: It is sexy to think that the tech apocalypse
1:52
is Arnold Schwarzenegger and "The Terminator,"
1:55
but it could be so much more mundane than that.
1:58
Just us driven in circles,
2:00
held hostage by drop-down menus,
2:03
with gadgets, disintermediating us from each other,
2:06
from our own bodies and from our curiosities.
2:09
Because nowadays, when we have a question, we don't wait and phone a friend.
2:14
We friend our phones.
2:16
And that feels so empowering to have all of this knowledge at our fingertips.
2:21
Yet early research from MIT tells us it's making us lazier and less smart,
2:27
and it is definitely making us less connected.
2:30
This is not what our parents and grandparents were sold
2:32
when they saw this relic of an ad from AT&T which says,
2:36
"Reach out and touch someone."
2:38
And yes, for all kinds of reasons, it would not go down well today.
2:41
(Laughter)
2:42
But it is oddly prescient
2:45
because we have never been more connected and more out of touch.
2:49
Now I’m not anti-tech. I actually cover it as a journalist.
2:52
I have every gadget under the sun,
2:54
and most days I think I'm in a relationship with my ChatGPT,
2:57
or as I like to call him, Chat Daddy.
3:00
(Laughter)
3:01
I am pro-human.
3:03
And as we progress into an AI world
3:05
that you've read 471.5 articles about today alone,
3:09
I want to make a case for old habits.
3:12
Three of them.
3:13
And tell you how I learned them the hard way.
3:16
The first is to pause,
3:18
to take just one second
3:19
when you feel that urge to reach for your digital pacifier.
3:23
This, by the way, is a second.
3:26
Studies show waiting that long before taking action
3:29
lets your brain work better.
3:31
The second is to wonder.
3:33
Watch a movie without googling who the actor is and what else is he in,
3:37
and how old he is, and is he single?
3:39
You can float in your own curiosity
3:41
instead of drown in information.
3:44
And the third is to ask a question
3:46
out loud again.
3:48
Have that fight at a dinner party
3:50
instead of playing footsie with your phone.
3:52
Ask something to someone you thought you couldn't learn from,
3:55
or someone you think you know everything about.
3:58
Because the dumbest thing we can be is know-it-alls.
4:02
A few years ago, my father passed.
4:05
In the days leading up to it, I was glued to devices.
4:09
They had all these answers.
4:11
The number to his hospice nurse, how often to give them morphine,
4:15
the signs to look out for, his heartbeat.
4:19
But when he passed on a Sunday,
4:20
a day before the data and the vitals suggested he would,
4:24
that's when it hit me.
4:26
The old habits were what mattered.
4:29
Those seconds of pause that added up to minutes more.
4:34
That weird and scary wonder about our own finite lives.
4:38
And the little questions people ask me,
4:40
like, "How can I be there for you?"
4:45
Sophie was on to something, but we're grown ups,
4:48
and we remember when presence and curiosity and connection
4:52
were possible outside of technology.
4:55
We have to practice these old habits
4:57
if we hope to pass them on to a new generation.
5:00
If we want to teach them how to be together
5:03
when we are together.
5:05
Right, Chat Daddy?
5:07
Thank you.
5:09
(Applause)
